And they brought to Him young children, that he might touch them. And the disciples rebuked them that brought them. Whom, when Jesus saw, He was much displeased, and saith to them: "Suffer the little children to come unto Me, and forbid them not; for of such is the kingdom of God." (Mark 10:13-14 - Douay-Rheims 1899)
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Bright-eyes Prays!!!
And they brought to Him young children, that he might touch them. And the disciples rebuked them that brought them. Whom, when Jesus saw, He was much displeased, and saith to them: "Suffer the little children to come unto Me, and forbid them not; for of such is the kingdom of God." (Mark 10:13-14 - Douay-Rheims 1899)
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Lenten Journey
Lent. Another opportunity for spiritual growth, yet again. As Holy Mother Church recommends to her children, PENANCE - to strengthen us spiritually at this particular time through the 3 penitential practices of fasting, prayer and almsgiving. We fast in order to conquer our weaknesses and strengthen our will against the concupiscences of the flesh. We pray in order to master our propensity to pride, and strengthen our relationship with our Creator. And we give alms in order to counter our tendency towards greed and avarice.
This year, although we had a slow start with our preparations for Lent, we are looking forward to a grace-filled Lenten season. To help us achieve some sort of growth and to especially aid the children in understanding this particular time in our liturgical journey, we have chosen a few activities to undertake as a family - most of them taken from books and other reading materials, and other ideas were sourced online.
FASTING
To help the kids with fasting / offering up sacrifices, we wanted to have a visual reminders of the objects associated with the Passion of Our Lord. So we constructed a new crowns of thorns this year which were basically the same as last year's, only a little thinner and therefore more realistic. We made a darker dough for the crowns and the children all helped insert the "thorns." We also shaped nails out of the dough and the rest of it was molded into a tomb-like structure complete with the boulder which we planned to use for Easter. After baking, the "nails" were painted in hammered grey which surprisingly made it rather realistic!
We placed one set of "Crown of Thorn and Nails" in a purple-covered stand which sat in the middle of our dinner table - to keep reminding us of the season and our goals this Lent. Each time a good deed was performed, one earned a chance to pull out a thorn, and everytime one performed an act of charity, he/she would earn a jewel to attach on the crown. It is, of course, the ultimate goal to have all thorns pulled out by Easter and the crown filled with colourful, shimmering jewels instead!
Also, to increase our awareness of our weaknesses, transgressions and how we are all responsible for making Jesus suffer and die on the cross, hubby constructed a big styro cross which the kids painted dark brown. We velcroed it on a door along a thoroughfare which made it very visible. Everytime somebody chose to do the wrong thing, they had to write the fault on a brown piece of paper and pin it up on the big cross. Undoubtedly, this cross would be filled with our "sins" throughout Lent. However, come Good Friday, these "sins" will be taken away and burnt, symbolizing the truth that Jesus paid for all our sins when He died on the cross on Good Friday. On Holy Saturday, the holes made by the pins used to affix the "sins" to the cross will be covered with flowers to symbolize repentance and consequently God's mercy on our sins. These brown papers with sins written on them will be burnt on Easter Vigil, in preparation for the New Life that Jesus gives us on Easter, when He is resurrected.
PRAYER
Apart from maintaining our nightly family Rosary, we incorporated the Via Crucis or Way of the Cross which will be prayed every Friday, to emphasize to us how much Jesus suffered before He died for us on the Cross, hopefully increasing our sorrow for our sins and strengthening our desire and resolutions for change, in order to welcome Easter and receive His New Life with a much cleaner heart.
Throughout Lent we will be using a prayer which would be recited before the Rosary:
Lenten Prayer
O Lord and Ruler of Life, take from me the spirit of idleness, despair, cupidity, and empty talking. Yea, O Lord grant that I may see my own sins and not judge my brother. For thou art blessed forever and ever. Amen.
ALMSGIVING
In order to 'make an effort' in this aspect, we also placed a jar in the middle of our dinner table which is labelled "Our Lenten Share." On it is also affixed the cost that each member of the family has to "pay" for every meal they have on this table. For the adults, breakfast and lunch cost $1, and dinner costs $2. For children breakfast and lunch cost $0.20 for breakfast and lunch and $0.50 for dinner. At Easter, we will be opening this jar, counting the total amount we saved and giving it to a chosen charitable institution.
ASH WEDNESDAY
At home before the Rosary, we said our Ash Wednesday prayer which was basically a "farewell" to Alleluia and also a prayer of invocation to the Holy Spirit to guide our efforts in achieving our Lenten resolutions. To make the Alleluia Farewell tangible and therefore more memorable for the kids, we asked the two boys to walk to the altar carrying our Alleluia stand (which we had painted beforehand) and "bury" it under the purple cover (symbolizing penance and great anticipation) which adorned our Lady's altar this season, together with the 2nd set of crown of thorn and nails. On Easter, we will be taking out the Alleluia stand and placing it in a highly visible place, for all to see and be reminded of the great joy of the Eastertide.
Alleluia, Song of Gladness
(from the early 9th and 10th centuries; referring to the farewell to the Alleluia in the liturgy)
Stay with us today, Alleluia,
When the morning rises,
thou shalt go thy way.
Alleluia, alleluia.
May the Lord be thy custodian, Alleluia.
And the angel of God accompany thee.
May the Lord keep thee alive
And protect thee from every evil.
Alleluia, alleluia.
The mountains and hills shall rejoice, Alleluia,
While they await thy glory.
Thou goest, Alleluia; may the way be blessed,
Until thou shalt return with joy.
Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia.
Ash Wednesday Prayer
Heavenly Father, let us enter the season of Lent in the spirit of joy giving ourselves to spiritual strife, cleansing our soul and body, controlling our passions, as we limit our food, living on the virtues of the Holy Spirit. Let us persevere in our longing for Christ so as to be worthy to behold His most solemn Passion and the most holy Passover, rejoicing the while with spiritual joy. Amen
By and large, we had a wonderful start to Lent. Apart from our prayers and activities at home, we went to Ash Wednesday Mass. In addition, we were able to request Fr Hartley for a holy hour with our Eucharistic Jesus, to which Fr very kindly agreed. Hence, besides having the very concrete reminder of the start of the season: ashes on our foreheads, it was certainly very good to start Lent by receiving Jesus sacramentally in holy communion, and spending sometime with Him in the Eucharistic Veil!
Friday, March 11, 2011
WEBSTER'S ENTRY 6
Sancte Ambrosius, ora pro nobis!
(Grade 5
Creative Writing
2011, Term 1, Week 6)
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Last Hurrah
St Thomas Aquinas
In the traditional calendar, his feastday is celebrated in March 7.
Monday, March 7, 2011
Lent 2011
I cannot believe Lent is here! It is Ash Wednesday this week, and I'm just not "ready" for Lent. However I am convincing myself that one will never really be as ready and disposed enough. One would probably do well to open oneself to the promptings of the Holy Spirit, the Sanctifier. Besides, this is exactly why Holy Mother Church gives us Lent in the first place: to help us master our tendencies and conquer our concupiscences. Thence, we can grow in spirit and be able to dispose our souls in readiness for receiving the new life that Jesus Christ purchased for us at the price of His Blood come Easter!
Therefore at this point, in spite of my initial sentiments, I choose to be filled with... HOPE!
GREAT GUIDEPOSTS FOR LENT
Lent is the time when we repent. "Repent" does not mean "to turn one's life around:" that is conversion. "Repent" in Latin means "to rethink." To see the world and our lives as Jesus: that is the beginning of repentance. -- Fr Daniel Homan
"And he said to all: If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me" - Luke 9:23
Let the mouth fast from disgraceful and abusive words, because, what gain is there when, on the one hand we avoid eating chicken and fish and, on the other, we chew-up and consume our brothers? He who condemns and blasphemes is as if he has eaten brotherly meat, as if he has bitten into the flesh of his fellow man. It is because of this that Paul frightened us, saying: "If you chew up and consume one another be careful that you do not annihilate yourselves." -- St John Chrysostom
We ought to fast, and to abstain from all vice, and from all that will lead us into sin, as well as from extravagance and superfluity. We should often visit the churches, and venerate and reverence all ecclesiastics on account of their office, and because they distribute the Sacred Body and Blood of Christ, which they offer in sacrifice, receive themselves, and administer to others. And let everyone know and hold for certain that we cannot be saved except through the sacred Words and the Precious Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ, which priests preach, announce, and distribute, and of which they are the sole ministers. -- St. Francis of Assisi
There was once a solitary who had built himself a royal palace in the trunk of an oak-tree; he had placed thorns inside of it, and he had fastened three stones over his head, so that when he raised himself or turned over he might feel the stones or the thorns. And we, we think of nothing but finding good beds, that we may sleep at our ease. -- St. Jean Marie Baptiste Vianney, the Cure of Ars
Friday, March 4, 2011
WEBSTER'S ENTRY 5
St Maria Goretti was born to a very poor family. Although they were poor, they were very happy. They considered themselves rich because they had a great treasure which was their strong Catholic faith.
Maria was generous and thoughtful. Once, when she was shopping, a kind grocer gave her an apple. She thanked him and put it in her pocket, saying that her little brother loved apples. Then he gave her a cookie. Once again, she put it in her pocket and said that she would give it to her sister. So the grocer gave her another cookie, saying that he would be very offended if she did not eat it herself, so she ate it.
Maria had a pure heart. Whenever her siblings needed help, she would help them. At mealtimes, she always served others before herself, and she always gave herself the smallest portion of food, knowing that her brothers worked hard, and her younger siblings were growing.
Maria wanted to receive Jesus in Holy Communion. She had longed to welcome Him into her heart from a young age. After receiving the Eucharist for the first time, she was always looking forward to reuniting with Jesus again, so she kept her heart pure and clean, because she wanted to receive Him worthily. Since she always went to communion with a pure heart, Jesus made Maria stronger each time, to resist temptation. Because of this, she was able to live a holy life, according to her motto: "Death, but not sin."
After Mr Goretti died, her family needed help, so they prayed hard. Soon, their neighbours - the Sernellis - started helping them. They even let the Gorettis live with them in their house. Mr Sernelli had a 19-year old son called Alessandro. Once, when Maria was sitting at the doorstep, sewing, Alessandro called her inside the house. When she refused, he dragged her inside and tried to make her commit a sin. She shouted, "Alessandro, don't touch me! It is a sin!" As Maria said this, Alessandro pulled out a dagger that he had gotten ready, stabbed her 14 times, and left her on the floor. Then he locked himself in his room.
Later, in the hospital, after the priest gave Maria her last rites, he asked her if she forgave her murderer, and she said "Yes." Soon after, she passed away. Maria died at the age of 12 with a pure heart that was able to forgive, even the person who tried to take away her life.
For us, St Maria Goretti is a great example of purity, love and forgiveness. If we keep our hearts pure, receive communion worthily, and pray regularly, Jesus will give us the strength we need to conquer temptation and love others with a pure love, maybe even our enemies. Saint Maria Goretti, pray for us!
(Grade 5,
Creative Writing,
2011, Term 1 Week 5 )
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Today is Thursday..
..and as we call to mind past special occasions that conjure up strong emotions and feelings of joy and gratitude, there is none more special and important to meditate on than THAT Thursday, when Christ instituted the Most Holy Eucharist, the Sacrament of His love. For us, this is the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass. How good is our Lord to give us the Blessed Eucharist, where He is "with us until the consummation of the world." (Matthew 28:20)
What a beautiful gift we have in the Mass. Although it is sad that there is much desecration of the Eucharist happening everywhere - largely because of the new mass (Novus Ordo), characterized by self-devised rubrics, ad libbing, personalization, liturgical "freewheeling," etc, we can take consolation in the fact that the Traditional Latin Mass (Tridentine Rite) is slowly making its way back.
(Before watching the video, don't forget to pause the music via the mixpod at the bottom of this page.)
The video below is an excellent one done about the Tridentine Mass (Theocentric / God-centred). In stark contrast to the Novus Ordo (anthropocentric / man-centred), the former is evidently more silent, solemn, and prayerful; more sacrificial in nature (as it should be: a Holy Sacrifice, as opposed to a mere sharing over a meal!) and renders the Sacrament the sacrality and mystery that it deserves, far more than does the latter. After watching it, one heaves a huge sigh of relief, to say: Thank God for the REAL Mass!!
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
COMMENT OF THE DAY
NB: Along with St Thomas Aquinas, St Gregory the Great, St Anthony of Padua, St Alphonsus Ligouri, St Catherine of Sienna and many others, St Therese of Lisieux is one of the 33 officially recognized Doctors of the Church. They are a group of saints whose writings and theological preachings are said to be useful to Christians "in any age of the Church."
Sunday, February 27, 2011
On This Day..
ONE IN HEARTThirteen years ago today, LL and I were united in the sacrament of Holy Matrimony at St Therese's Catholic Church, Kedron. As husband and wife we have gone through a great deal together, and life has not been without challenge. Nevertheless, God has been so good to us, providing us with all that we need to sustain us in our life together, corporally and even spiritually. We are especially grateful for the faith, and grace He makes us partakers of, to answer His call for sanctification through the vocation of parenthood - forming our children with filial fear of God, and striving together for holiness in the family with the example of the Blessed Virgin Mary and the saints, and under the loving guidance of Holy Mother Church and our Holy Father, the Pope.
To my dear husband, Happy 13th Anniversary. I love you!
A PARENT'S DELIGHT
Today is also Roadrunner's birthday. It was six years ago (on our 7th wedding anniversary) when we first beheld this beautiful tiny baby that God sent our way. After waiting 4 long years here was another little blessing that made our family's life even more abundant! A true manifestation of God's generous love he was. Over the years it has been an absolute joy watching Roadrunner grow, and develop his own unique little personality - his charitable nature as he offers assistance whenever it is needed, or even surprising us with his enthusiastic initiative; the kind and caring words he is only too ready to say whenever somebody needs them - make our Roadrunner such a delight to be around. What a privilege it is to be parents to a lovable soul. For him we will forever be grateful to our Loving Benefactor.
To our precious Roadrunner, happy 6th birthday! May God grant your little heart's desires. We pray that you will always be under the loving, motherly protection of Our Blessed Mother. We love you very much!!
OUR PRAYER ON THIS DAY
Lord God! Thou hast called us to the holy state of matrimony and hast been pleased to make us parents. We recommend to Thee our dear children. We entrust them to Thy fatherly care. May they be a source of consolation, not only to us, but chiefly to Thee, Who are their Creator. Be watchful, O Lord; help and defend them.
Grant us the grace to guide them in the way of Thy commandments. This we will do by our own perfect observance of Thy holy law and that of our holy Mother, the Church. Make us conscious of our grave obligation to You, and bless our efforts to serve You. We humbly ask this blessing from the bottom of our hearts, for ourselves and for the children whom Thou hast been pleased to give us.
We dedicate them to Thee, O Lord. Do Thou keep them as the apple of Thy eye, and protect them under the shadow of Thy wings. Make us worthy to come, at last, to heaven, together with them, giving thanks unto Thee, Our Father, for the loving care Thou hast had of our entire family, and praising Thee together through endless ages. Amen. (adapted)
Laus Deo.
Saturday, February 26, 2011
WEBSTER'S ENTRY 4
Rose Hawthorne Lathrop was born to wealthy, American, non-Catholic parents. When she grew up she married George Lathrop and, together, they became Catholic. They had a child who died of illness. Her husband became an alcoholic, so Rose left her marriage. She felt that God was calling her to help people suffering from cancer. At that time, people thought cancer was contagious.
Rose's motto was, "I will see all things only through the spirit of God, thus freeing myself of personality and forgetting my existence. I will regard all things through the Spirit of Jesus Christ." This means that we should not be judgemental, but be kind towards others, like Jesus.
Rose gave up everything and moved to the poorest area in New York to nurse cancer patients. She was kind and caring to all of them. She worked for free, or without charge. So she relied on donations. To get help, she wrote an article in the newspaper, and many people were moved. One reader, Alice Huber, read it and decided to help Rose, first once a week and soon after, full time.
Rose and Alice joined the Dominican Sisters, and Rose took the name Mary Alphonsa, while Alice, Mary Rose. Some time later, both Mary Alphonsa and Mary Rose founded a new order called, The Servants for the Relief of Incurable Cancer.
Mother Alphonsa lived a busy life: running the convent, doing her daily duties as a religious nun and nursing cancer patients. She drew strength from Jesus in the Eucharist. Once, a journalist asked her where she got her strength to perform all her activities, and in reply she pointed to the Tabernacle. Mother Alphonsa did everything for God, and she did all her work cheerfully for a long time, until she passed away quietly in her sleep on July 9, 1926.
Mother Alphonsa, like Jesus, treated everyone with kindness, respect, care and without judgement. This shows how well she lived according to her rule of life. Her motto is a good guide for us who want to follow Jesus. Mother Alphonsa, in her faith and life of service is a great example for us in living a truly Christian life.
(Grade 5,
Creative Writing,
2011, Term 1, Week 4)
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Purple for Penance

Septuagesima Sunday just passed. Fr Hartley says we should be treating this period (between Septuagesima Sunday and Ash Wednesday) as a mini-Lent, or a time to prepare for Lent, both exteriorly and interiorly. In the traditional calendar, preparation for Lent starts the day after Septuagesima Sunday, which is why in the traditional rite the priest starts wearing purple - to signify great solemnity, penance and mourning - just like Fr did last night.
I'm trying so hard to get into the mode, not just for my own benefit, but moreso for the kids' sake. I know this is also the time to brainstorm and plan what activities we can adopt to help us achieve some spiritual growth through Lent and aspire for a new and better life with Christ by Easter. Thank God, indeed, that there are several excellent books and resource materials available, not to mention sites and blogs online containing LOADS of great ideas!
The only thing I don't seem to have? Time. Not lots of it, anyway. But until such time when I'd get some to initiate the required preparations, I shall be praying..
PRAYER FOR HOLY PERSEVERANCE
Eternal Father, I humbly adore Thee, and thank Thee for having created me, and for having redeemed me through Jesus Christ. I thank Thee most sincerely for giving me the true faith, and by adopting me as Thy son, in the sacrament of baptism. I thank Thee for having, after the numberless sins I had committed, waited for my reentance, and for having pardoned (as I humbly hope) all the offences which I have offered to Thee, and for which I am now sincerely sorry, because they have been displeasing to Thee, who art infinite goodness. I thank Thee for having preserved me from so many relapses, of which I would have been guilty if Thou hadst not protected me. But my enemies still continue, and will continue til death, to combat against me, and to endeavour to make me their slave. If Thou dost not constantly guard and succor me with Thy aid, I, miserable creature, shall return to sin, and shall certainly lose Thy grace. I beseech Thee, then, for the love of Jesus Christ, to grant me holy perseverance unto death. Jesus, Thy Son, has promised that Thou wilt grant whatsoever we ask in His Name. Through the merits, then, of Jesus Christ, I beg, for myself and for all the just, the grace never again to be separated from Thy love, but to love Thee forever, in time and eternity. Mary, Mother of God, pray to Jesus for me. (adapted)
Ora pro nobis, Sancta Dei Genitrix, ut digni efficiamur promissionibus Christi!
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Tweaking

Spending a bit of time giving this page a bit of a makeover. Tweaking.. tweaking.. tweaking.. Adding this one, taking that one off.. Ugh PC must be soooo confused!!
So far I've been able to add a few things, but I'm probably going to chop and change some more. It's fun, though.. Interesting finding nice things to add. My favourite so far: the autoplay mixpod. Love the sacred music that plays whenever I open the page now. :)
Friday, February 18, 2011
WEBSTER'S ENTRY 3
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Wednesdays with Jesus
Among the innumerable gifts we are thankful for, I am particularly grateful for the privilege of assisting at Holy Mass. The Holy Eucharist is the unbloody re-enactment of Calvary, and it is THE best sacrifice we can ever offer to our Almighty Father because Jesus is the Unblemished Lamb. Therefore, more than any other prayer or act of worship, there is invaluable merits available to anyone who assists / attends Holy Mass each time. As in all spiritual things, it has been such a challenge for us to go to daily Mass; and the number of occasions we would go during the week just gradually dwindled until we could only get ourselves to Sunday Mass (except First Fridays and First Saturdays). A couple of weeks ago, however, by an act of God's grace, we were able to restart going everyday again! And I'm sure Our Lady's powerful intercession has had a lot to do with it.
Another very special gift we receive as Catholics, is the grace of Eucharistic Adoration. How truly humbled we should feel to be able to go and worship Jesus in the Eucharist where He, Himself, deigns to be truly present - Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity. This act of Eucharistic adoration is referred to as a "foretaste of Heaven" where, if we do get to experience beatific vision, we will be adoring our Lord with Our Lady and all the angels and saints!
In a previous blogpost I mentioned that Wednesdays are our free days from schooling where the day is normally reserved for extra-curricular activities, or any other errands / tasks that need to be completed. So far, Wednesdays are such a necessity for us (moreso for me!) because it provides a good break in the middle of a busy week - perfect for getting recharged and regaining my bearings; and for the kids, a chance to keep interest levels up via other activities. However it still felt like we could be making better use of our school-free Wednesdays.
We used to go to adoration on a regular basis for a while (every Saturday evenings when we are able to go as a family), but we took ourselves off the roster shortly before Max's birth - for obvious reasons, and we have not gone back on it just yet. The other night, however, we were talking about restoring our weekly holy hour, and suddenly we got a light bulb moment, surely an inspiration from the Holy Spirit: Wednesdays!!
Today was our first "Wednesday with Jesus" and it naturally took a lot of effort, but we got there, and we were very happy when we did. After their afternoon nap, the kids and I picked hubby up from his city office and from there we went straight to the Perpetual Adoration Chapel. We were a little late, so we didn't quite make ONE whole hour. We had dinner (packed from home) at the community room and then from there we proceeded to attend the 7:10 Wednesday night Mass in honour of Our Lady of Perpetual Help. It is our fervent hope that we can make this a practice every week.
Drawing from the past, we will undoubtedly be experiencing snags and bumps along the way; but for now we shall choose to be happy and enjoy the journey. How truly great it feels to be back: to daily Mass and to having reestablished our holy hour through our "Wednesdays with Jesus." In the midst of the endless challenges God allows us to go through, it is so great to find time to show some gratitude to our good Lord. And by the countless unmerited blessings He lavishes on us continuously, this is certainly the least we can do.
O memoriale mortis Domini
Panis vivus vitam praestans homini
Praesta meae menti de te vivere
Et te illi semper dulce sapere.
(excerpted from Adoro Te Devote by St Thomas Aquinas)
Benedictus Jesus in sanctissimo altaris Sacramento!
Narnia Fever
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
St Valentine's Day
Just like all first days of the schoolweek, our Mondays are usually packed: new lessons, etc. and today was definitely no exception. So for the feast of St Valentine, we decided to make something to share as a nice dessert after dinner: St Valentine shortbread. But because I had little to no time for it amidst all preparations for the Monday night Mass at our little chapel, I decided to allow only minimal involvement from the kids during the majority of the preparation. Nevertheless, when it came to the cutting, it was all hands on deck! And the result was... not bad at all! Happy St Valentine's Day to all!
Valentine's Day takes its origin from St Valentine who died on February 14 in about the year 270; and resultantly this celebration was started to honour his martyrdom. He was a holy priest who was apprehended and imprisoned as a result of assisting the Christians during the persecution under Claudius II. While in jail, St Valentine is said to have converted 46 members of a guard's family to Christianity, and when the emperor Claudius found out about this, he ordered St Valentine to be tortured and put to death.
St Valentine is the patron of love, young people and happy marriage.
Sancte Valentinus, ora pro nobis!







